Night one of Grant Ellis' Bachelor "journey" was particularly notable for what didn't happen: There were no fights among the women, no trash-talking, and while a few tears were shed, they were the result of genuine emotion — not petty conflicts.

Bachelor Grant Ellis also tells PEOPLE that he wanted to "take things slow" in the Fantasy Suites because "I think a lot of times when you initiate the physical part, it could cause you to make really bad decisions.